7 signs you are dating the POOR
Because I love you all so much, I decided to add 4 extra tips. I am doing the Lord’s work today! The days of women dealing with broke, low ambition, low vibrational Beta men are over! Women deserve a man that protects and provides, not a bozo that lays around your house all day doing nothing while eating up all your snacks.
Who do I consider to be a poor man?
A poor man is also called a brokie! A brokie has the following characteristics:
- Poor in standards, poor in values, and poor in morals.
- Does not like to work and has no ambition.
- Would rather rob and steal from someone (girl, hide your purse).
- Will have sex with anything that gives him attention. If he knew his friends were not going to find out, he would have sex with a man.
- Very jealous of men and women that have the lifestyle that he wants, even though he’s not willing to work for it.
- Has a "lack" mentality. Lives in lack, very negative. Sees the negative in everything. This is his excuse for not trying because he views everything negatively. Even when he has something, he’s an Indian Giver and will take it right back.
The days of women paying a man’s bills or dealing with a man ONLY because he has potential are over! Here are 7 telltale signs that you are dating a BROKIE. Because I love you all so much and I want us ALL to win, I have added 4 bonus tips as well.
1. Your date asks, “What do you bring to the table?”
This is a poor man's favorite question to ask! The only reason why he would ask you this is because he does not have anything to offer and he needs your help. He’s not man enough to bring something to the table, rather, like the woman in the relationship he wants YOU to protect and provide for him.
A real man will NEVER ask you this question. A real man will build you a table, fix it, and add to your table. Brokies need your finances to complete him as a man. The brokie is not looking for companionship but is looking for you to financially support him. So, the next time he texts or calls you, block and delete.
2. He asks you, "How much money you make?"
A high-value man, a man of means, a wealthy man…a quality man will not even FIX HIS LIPS to ask you how much money you make. The only time a man wants to know how much money you make is when that man wants YOUR MONEY! He’s one of those “what’s yours is mines” kind of guys.
If by some terrible twist of fate you find yourself on a date with a guy that asks you this question, calmly excuse yourself to go to the bathroom, take off your heels, pull out your foldable flats from your purse (a first date must have, click this link or the photo), and RUN like Sleepy Joe has another stimulus check waiting for you in your mailbox!
3. His “fallen on hard times” phase has lasted more than 60 days
Guys like this will always make it seem like everything was so perfect in his life and then all of a sudden…BAM! In the same week, he lost his job, his imaginary car is in the shop, and he just lost his million-dollar home.
The truth is that before you came along, his life was already in shambles! It was only a matter of time before the act of "having it all together" had to come to an end. By the time you find out the truth, you have already invested too much time into him. He finds comfort in the struggle life. His entire life is a struggle.
If bad luck seems to follow him wherever he goes, book him a one-way Greyhound bus ticket away from you! Even better, Mega Bus has $1 tickets that will also take his broke ass across town.
4. He always talks about what he’s “about to do”
It’s great when a man has an aspiration to do better. However, is there a follow-through? How many times have you heard brokie say, “I’m about to start a business,” or “I’m about to invest in the stock market," or "I’m about to invest in Crypto”?
Successful men have a successful track record. Also, a man’s word is supposed to be his bond. If you cannot trust a man’s word, you cannot trust him. Men who always talk about what they are “about to do” lack ambition and are only seeking validation for something they haven’t done.
Low-value men (like a leech) will say anything to latch onto you and will suck you dry and leave you with nothing.
5. He’s a grown man selling candy bars outside of Walmart
Wait ...What? I thought high schoolers and Girl Scouts sold candy and cookies outside of Walmart and Target. Now there are grown men waiting for you to come outside and hounding you to buy candy? No sir, you are not an entrepreneur and you are not creative when it comes to ways of making money. You just made it harder for the kids to earn money to pay for their basketball camp and uniforms!
Listen, I’m not reaching into my purse to buy a melted, expired jumbo size Snickers from a grown man!
Are you going to pawn that fake Rolex to bail him out of jail? The pawnshop staff will throw you and those watches out of their establishment! And no, those bags did not fall off a truck that was going to the Louis Vuitton Store - those are fakes from China.
7. He often references “gold diggers” yet has no money, land, property, stocks, bonds, or resources of his own
He is so worried that someone is going to take away his little security guard, T-Mobile salesperson, call center check! When a man is calling you a gold digger, he is really just running game on you so you will lower your standards and accept his below-average ways. Only broke men call women gold diggers.
This man wants to put in minimum effort and money into getting to know you and wants you to be OK with it. He wants you to settle for a walk in the park instead of conversation over a candle-lit dinner. High standards protect you from lower-quality experiences.
If you have to explain to a grown man that his role as a man is to protect and provide, do not waste your time.
He did not grow up with a strong, masculine father figure. He most likely did not have a man at home to teach him what being a man is. This is the reason for his imbalanced logic.
Instead of getting therapy, he is damaged goods looking for victims to take his anger out on. He came from a single mother household and wants to be the woman in the relationship.
These are the same men that call themselves Alpha males, lol! There is nothing Alpha about not having a job, being broke, and living in your mother’s basement. An Alpha male protects and provides, and is busy learning about financial literacy. Alpha men do not troll women on platforms exclusively made for women.
Men that are financially stable without mommy issues are not worried about “gold diggers" trying to take their money. They have the money to properly court you.
8. He pretends to be super "woke" but has not manifested financial abundance
Men that are truly woke understand that we all are creators. We create things in our lives through our imagination and by manifesting. Money is currency and energy that is constantly flowing. When you become your higher, most enlightened self, money and abundance flow into your life like water. Money-making ideas come into your life easily.
When you are broke, you are still and stagnant. You are not producing fruit. If you were “woke” or had your third eye opened, you would have seen that eviction notice on your front door coming from a mile away!
Offer to drive him to the shop so that you can visit this imaginary Dodge Challenger!
10. He is still on a cell phone family plan with his mom, aunty, brother, and 2 sisters
If you ask him if he has seen the latest post on Instagram from The Shade Room, He won’t be able to check because he’s scared his momma will yell at him for going over the data usage on the cell phone plan!
It’s bad enough he has to share data with 6 people. Don’t waste your time with a man that can’t even get a cell phone in his name and has to include his mother for anything.
NO! NO! NO! Although recreational marijuana is legal (in some states), selling marijuana part-time does not show that he has entrepreneurial skills.
What if you two are together on a date and he runs into one of the customers that have not paid him? Are you going to spot him for $20? Are you going to take off of your heels and help beat up the delinquent client?
The typical men that sell weed on the side are square, average at best, 9-5 men that want to have some edge to them. They sell a little bit of weed to feel cool. They dream of one day getting rid of their "Top flight security of the world" job and one day becoming a big-time drug dealer like Scarface.
These men will have a Scarface poster on their wall and will think they are big-time because they made $50 for the day. He could have made more money starting a business online.
12. He is a HOBOsexual (read that again) that tells you he loves you and moves into your home RIGHT AWAY!
You meet a guy on a dating app. You look amazing and you pick out the perfect first date dress. He checks off all of your boxes and he seems to be the perfect guy. He memorized every word on your dating profile and it just so happens that he loves everything that you love. Wow, what a coincidence 🙄
You guys finally go out on a date. He feeds you the “money does not matter" fairytale that brokies love to say. You say, “You are right babe, money does not matter”. Meanwhile, he’s rubbing his hands together because, in his mind, he knows that he’s caught the perfect victim.
He knows that he has a woman that is desperate enough to take care of him, a desparatisha! He then asks you how much money you make and where you work. After you tell him, he now has everything that he needs to find out how much money you make. These guys are very logical. Brokies ask you questions about your financials because they want YOU to support them.
He tells you everything that you want to hear and it feels like he’s your soulmate. You are now thinking to yourself “I could really see myself with this guy”. By the third date, you order the 2 for $20 special at Applebees, and his card declines.
The waiter giggles at him and to restore his dignity, you give the waiter your card. He affirms you by telling you that you’re a strong independent woman that knows how to hold a man down.
You didn’t allow this event to spoil your night so you allow him to spend the night because the vibe is amazing. Then all of a sudden, he spends another night and another.
You ask to go by his house but then he tells you that he loves you and thinks you guys should move in with each other! You, being the nice person that you are, let him stay because you don’t want to kick out a man that just professed his love to you.
One month goes by and now he’s asking to borrow your car. You ask him, “What happened to your security guard job you had downtown at social services?" He tells you that his boss is a prick and that he quit!
Now he’s in your home, eating up all of your Hot Cheetos and using up all of your toilet paper. You are now taking care of an overgrown child that now expects you to respect him and treat him like the man of the house.
Instead of you living your best life, you are now stressed out thinking of ways of how to nicely kick this bum out of your home. You don’t want to make a scene in front of your neighbors and he knows where you live. Girl, you have just been finessed by a hobosexual! Here is a gift idea that will get him out of your home: Click here.
If I have left any signs out, make sure to add them into the comments below! Like and share!
It was the first one for me, I remember the first time someone said that to me I was taken a back by the statement. “WhAt dO yoU bRiNg To tHe TaBlE” Laddies we have to be careful who you choose to around. Wow, I wish this information was available when I was younger, before I fully stepped into dating world. This would saved me a lot time, now I just decided pause on dating until finished some self improvement.
“You are now taking care of an overgrown child that now expects you to respect him and treat him like the man of the house.” This part …OMG I know a lot of women with guys like this and I can’t stand them ! But they say I’m too arrogant and will end alone .
Yes! So many of them are jealous and want to be the woman in the relationship. That’s why I always find out if they came from a two parent married household. A lot of them despise their single mom and want to punish women. The see men in and out of their moms life and resent having to be the man of the house and moms son/husband. They have so many issues and refuse to learn from it and grow. No one has time for that.
Also the part about they would sleep with a man if they didn’t think their friends would find out. So many are so extremely feminine attitude wise. I know they are gay and would feel better to get the man of their dreams to take care of them.